Heraclitus said, “There is nothing permanent except change.” That sounds about right doesn’t it? We see change all around us every day, some we create and others we seem to have very little control over.
Meanwhile, we are told, “Life is change. Growth is optional”. There seems little way to avoid change in our lives. But what does change have to do with debt management and living credit smart?
Plenty!!
The first time someone (like you?) contacts Credit Advisors it’s all about change. Something has already changed in their lives, possibly divorce, loss of a job, or illness; or they are seeking to make changes, like stop using credit cards, resolve collection activity, or simply get out from under a seeming mountain of debt. What about you?
Change is the journey itself
When you joined CAF and began to learn about managing your debt and credit, developing your budget and working your DMP (debt management program) you were attempting to make some BIG changes in your life. For some of you it was beginning to make timely payments, for others it was about trying to get off the credit card Ferris wheel. Some of you had never attempted to live within a budget before and still others were dealing with the pressure of major medical bills, collection accounts, lost income, or any number of other changes. So...
How’s it going?
Are you still in the battle? Have you made changes to the way you spend money compared to the past? Have you changed your perception of shopping with credit cards and moved toward using cash? Are you taking your lunch to work instead of eating out? Have you explained to your kids that all of you (your entire family) are working toward a brighter tomorrow? Are you feeling stressed? How’s your motivation level? Has it been as easy as you hoped it would be?
Why is it so ‘crazy’ difficult to make changes - especially long term ones that involve money or credit? Are you thinking, “Nobody told me how hard and lonely change is.” No, they probably didn’t.
Change can be difficult.
Are you the only one who struggles? No, no and again, no. Change is difficult for many, if not all of us at different times. It doesn’t come easy. Of course, your folks probably told you that most good things don’t come easy - but how much help is that when you find yourself knee deep in real change? Some reassurance may be found in recognizing that every one of us at some point must make an extra effort to overcome obstacles that block our attempts to maintain the changes necessary to reach our ultimate goals.
Sometimes, at the beginning of a change effort, because motivation is high, we may not perceive that a long-term change can become more challenging down the road. Yet, on the other hand, some folks never get past that initial commitment to change. Why is change so difficult? It is difficult because change upsets the applecart - because it is change, because it is different. We feel awkward, self-conscious, alone. We feel a loss of control. We may perceive change as criticism about how we have handled things in the past. Sometimes our self-confidence slips. Most difficult of all, we can lose sight of what it is we wish to accomplish through change, the coming benefits from successful change and focus instead on what we perceive we are losing or having to give up.
We question ourselves and our wisdom. We begin to doubt. Concerns arise. What’s wrong with how things are now? How will change, change me? Will I be able to change? Is this the right time? What happens if it doesn’t work? Am I making progress? What do I do now?
So, how do you overcome the roadblocks on the journey of change? By changing your mind.
What do we mean? As Albert Einstein said, “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.”
Accordingly, we change the way we think about change. All we know about change is that change is constant and on going. Change is not a destination. Change is the journey itself. Because change is hard work and demanding, we need to remember and find a way to reinforce the vision of what we wish to achieve.
What was it for you? Getting rid of collection calls? Overcoming high interest rates? Seeing some reduction in the balances of your credit accounts? Reducing the stress you faced each morning when you woke, if you actually got to sleep after worrying most the night? Or was it the broader goal of eliminating your debt or owning your own home?
Reaching such goals, changing our situations, and our behaviors, calls for radical change. Radical change requires us to learn new ways of being and of thinking. And it requires support and reinforcement. Are you taking advantage of all the opportunities available to support your radical change efforts?
What does CAF offer?
This newsletter, Defeat Debt, offers monthly ideas for aiding your efforts to create a debt free life. Our member’s website offers you opportunity to review your program and update your accounts with the most up to the minute information. Our e-newsletter, DebtEdge shares credit and debt information on a bi-weekly basis keeping you up to speed and in the know about new ways to support your change efforts. If you are not receiving these call client care at 1-888-942-9027. CAF educational seminars and Client Advisory Meetings, open to all client members and the public, are also an excellent way to stay aware of the impact credit, debt and change can have on your life, as well as gain support on your journey. In addition, the certified credit counselors in the CAF client care unit are always available to discuss your progress and/or any difficulties you face in achieving your goals.
Only you can reach out and take hold of the support you need to make the most positive radical changes in your life. No one can do it for you - but you can do it!
Stay on the journey! When it comes to changes involving credit and debt, partner with CAF and make use of all your opportunities to develop the strength and skills you need to achieve your change goals. Those further along the journey want you to know, the end result you seek is worth its weight in gold.
